He's trying to exit from the bad situation I dragged into in the best way, without considering that: 1) He judged and criticized my job without knowing or asking for details but instead thinking I was searching pity from the community. 2) He also criticized the fact that now , at 41 and with few money and without a job, I'm obliged to come back to my mother's house. This has been *unacceptable*. Maybe I should go under a bridge and ask for charity, it would be a "more adult" move for him.
Every job needs respect, even cleaning the toilets in offices or motels, if done honestly. He probably lives in a good place and has a good job that allows him to judge others' one. Unfortunately here in Italy *every day* someone lose his job, even at 50 years old and sometimes after 30+ years of activity.