> > If we were to follow the logic of a particular social view that seen the attractive > > woman as appearing to be complimented, but was actually being insulted > > I don't know what twisted paths in your mind make you say such things, but I don't > think there are many social views like that. You keep distorting things to meet your > agenda. No one said that compliments are insults. No one even said anything about > compliments. It was harassment. If you think the people in all these vids wanted to > make a honest compliment and nothing else, or they wanted to be comrades and nothing > else, well go back to primary school. > > And I don't think a woman should wear a burka if she doesn't want to have such a > harassment. It's not like it's her fault. She wasn't dressing like a slut or > anything. However, when someone opens their mouth, they should be responsible of what > and how they say. If someone I don't know and I have ZERO reasons to like, comes to > me in the subway telling me that I'm hot and we should come along, I would feel > disgusted equally, not flattered. It's not like you are crossing a famous sportsman > and tell him "hey dude you're the bomb, keep that way!" but more like you're getting > into the personal space. And addressing anyone in such familiar terms like "hey > cutie" or "you're god's greatest creation honey" wether it's followed by "wanna go > home with me" or not, or if you have a physical problem and the idiot in the corner > tell you "hey moby dick watch out for ahab", they deserve being punched in the face. > Why? Because maybe that way next time they'll think twice before opening their mouth. > > PUNCH THEM IN THE FACE OFTEN, IT'S HEALTHY FOR THEM. You're lucky this is just a post > and you're nowhere near me. > > Keep the compliments and flattering for people you know will expect them. Not many > people like to be judged by their looks alone.
I agree with all of this. Personally, I think Marc Randazza put it best: http://randazza.wordpress.com/2014/11/01/catcalling-is-for-genetic-refuse/
Of course, now I'll be dogpiled by creepy middle-aged dudes who feel their masculinity is threatened by the idea that they should be polite rather than horny dipshits.
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