> Who here *does not* have a spouse nor kids..... > and loves it?! > > I had a soulmate of a spouse. Sadly, she died back in 2009. :-( > > No kids, though. The world is too wack for me to consider even considering bringing a > new life into it. The reality of breeders who over-breed only convinced me of the > validity of my anti-natalist stance. > > --Bekki
Several people have told me that's exactly why smart people should procreate. In a certain light, it is sensical.
Whether people physically or emotionally leave, it's the same. I have at times been of the mind that it was worse if they was still livin. Cos you they're still there, but can't be had!
Mostly, as I am now, I've been pragmatic about it: love yourself and relish it. If others are compatible to add to it, great.
Consider it high comedy....sincere tragedy....whatever...don't take it personally.