At one point in your life you realize that most of everyone elses opinions about you are superficial and don't matter. Sure we should care about our relationships and other people, but in the long run, we are accountable to ourselves. We have to face ourselves and answer to ourselves.
Its taught to us from an early age to constantly seek others approval, but in the long run, its pointless. Most of us here are out of high school / college and after you graduate, you should learn that what matters the most is being who you are and true to that.
I'm fat, I'm quite well aware of that fact. I only diet because my 4th open heart surgery was due to that fact. I'm doing what I can to lose weight, but even then I only care to get to 220 lbs, and if I can do that I'll be happy to try and stay and that weight.
I know I'm far from perfect, but I never will be perfect. I just accept myself at face value and work on the limitations I have that I think need prioritization and are areas I can change for the better.
That's what we should do, be true to ourselves and try to change what we want to change that we believe we can change. None of us will ever be perfect, and all the butt kissing and trying to be liked by others won't matter in life. What will matter will be are we who we think we ought to be, not what others want us to be. If we aren't happy with ourselves, does it matter what others think?
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