or if there even is one. how do you rationalize and live your life with whatever you've accepted lies after death? have you decided?
i've got a long post/reply here with more details, but i kinda wanted to get the ball rolling. long story short, i've always kinda just assumed (on the backburner) the basic concept of a christian afterlife so i could live without having to think about it; but more and more lately, i've been toying with the concept of just absolute oblivion and it's keeping me up nights.