If you aren't meeting the person within a short time from when you start messaging them, you are an idiot.
What kind of morons are corresponding with someone online (not even once Skyping, mind you) and developing deep emotional ties?
I just wrote a girl last week and met a few days later. The only thing that surprised me was I didn't realize she'd have an eastern european accent. I'd call that a bonus, though. Seeing her again in an hour!
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