Oh yeah. I've tried to make it clear to her that her actions are what has caused all of this. Not very masculine, but I even had a tear in my eye to tell her how bad this hurts. I tried my damndest to make sure she knows that this isn't an over reaction to her issues and that she brought the thunder down herself. It's just my reaction to her breaking the rules. But I still feel horrible because her Christmas present was going to be Basketball Shoes!